A few years ago while I was scrolling through
Facebook, I read something posted by a friend
that I've never forgotten.
And the truth is probably more important today
than when I first read it years ago.
The post was a pretty simple but life changing
thought she said, "Facebook likes are free.
It doesn't cost you anything to hand them
out, so go for it."
My friend was offering a quick commentary
on how we use Facebook.
It doesn't cost anything to click like on
somebody's photo, or status update, or new
group page.
So go ahead and do it.
You can be an encouragement to that person
by simply clicking a button.
I mean, you're already scrolling through Facebook
anyways, might as well be an encouragement
to others.
The thought actually changed how I began using
Facebook and other social media platforms.
I used to just scroll and scan, but now I
click like.
It's a quick way to encourage someone else.
And it seems to me in an internet world, with
so much negativity, shouldn't we be passing
out as much positivity as possible?
Of course, this advice extends far beyond
social media.
Perhaps even more importantly, it should extend
to our in person relationships as well.
Compliments are free.
It costs us literally nothing to use kind
words, so why not use as many as possible?
It's nice to receive long, thoughtful, drawn
out compliments, but not every kind word needs
to be that way.
Sometimes just one shot sentence can be enough
to change the entire course of somebody's
day.
So do it- often.
"You did a good job," "It's nice to see you,"
"That's really funny," "You're really thoughtful,"
"You're one of the kindest people I know,"
"I'm glad I get to work with you," "You look
really nice today," "You always brighten my
day," "I'm really proud of you."
Each of these compliments take only seconds.
And they don't cost anything to hand out.
So just go for it.
In a world full of negativity, Everybody can
use a little more positivity in their lives.
Besides, you're a beautiful person, and a
compliment from you would mean more than you
know.